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It has been a rough few days around here. I thought I was prepared for Erin moving out to Texas with Matt…but whew, I wasn’t prepared at all. I just thought I was. See, it had always been me and Erin against the world. He biological father has never really had anything much to do with her and she and I faced everything that came at us together.  When Bric came along and Tate we gladly shared our lives but it was still me and Erin in many ways.

I was happy to see her fall in love. I loved watching her grow into a young woman. When the Army finally allowed Matt to come and collect his wife I was thrilled for them. All week I watched them gather things together, pack things up, pick up the uHaul, load the uHaul. But then Thursday came and the more the day dragged on the heavier my heart got. I wanted to be happy for her, but it was so hard watching my only daughter get ready to walk out the door knowing that she wouldn’t be back in a few days, or even a few weeks. Visits will be months away, there are just sooooo many miles between us.

I still can’t really talk about the details. It has just torn my heart out of my chest though. Normally I am not an emotional person and can keep myself in check but not on Thursday. I fell apart, I sobbed. And every time I think of it, I tear up. It is still going to take me a few days (or months at this rate) to adjust to our new reality around here but we will adjust. We will be ok…and so will she. Right now I am going to find me some reading glasses online so I can read this darn map I bought and start planning my trip to Texas!

 

 

Ok, so I told you how Bric and I met. What I haven’t told you about is the big move. It is quite a feat to move a whole house of stuff from one side of the country to another. It was decided near the end of  February that Bric was going to move to Georgia. And would be here the first week of April. So, that gave us one month basically to make all of the arrangements. I had to find a larger house. He had to find some California Movers . I had to find another vehicle (who in San Diego drives?). He had to get a plane ticket. I had to start helping him to find a job. He had to seriously look for a job.

It was a constant back and forth of all the things that needed to be done and be done quickly. All the while everyone in our families think we have totally lost our minds and us beginning to agree at times. Thank goodness I wasn’t Moving To California, it would have been much worse. I don’t think I could have mentally handled it at all and then Bric would not only have had a whole new family to deal with but he would have been committing me to an asylum.

See, the thing with California Moving Companies is that only a few of them go cross country. So after searching through all of the California International Movers – we finally find one that will transport everything across the country to GA. So, I leave it all up to Bric to make sure everything in his apartment is packed and ready to go. The movers arrive and get everything loaded up, Bric then goes to the airport and catches a plane to GA. Fast Forward a few weeks. We are all happily living in our cute little house living life to the fullest and then it happens. The moving truck arrives.

Yep, the moving truck arrives. They open the doors and I see it. He brought EVERYTHING. Now, when I say everything…I mean EVERYTHING. Bric is a pack-rat. I had specifically asked him to make sure he went through everything and tossed all the junk, the gazillion boxes of papers, etc. You know what he did? He paid the moving guys to help him just toss everything in even more boxes and throw it on the truck. At the last minute. SO now, we have paid these guys to bring half a truckload of furniture and treasured belongings and half a truckload of landfill material. And it most of it wasn’t even packed. Just tossed into the truck  which had become unstable, throwing all the stuff around in the drive over.

We paid people to take a huge load of garbage from one coast to another just to be thrown away. Seriously. And because of the way it was loaded into the truck it all ended up just being unloaded into the front yard until it could be determined what it was, where it went and all that jazz. Talk about a HUGE mess.

The moral? NEVER, ever leave it to a pack-rat to move by himself. NEVER, ever leave it to an unorganized man to move by himself. If you do, then it will truly look like you are a redneck because you will have stuff littered all over your yard for weeks.

 

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Whew, Tate’s Karate test is over. Supper has been made and eaten. Dishes have sorta been done (they are sitting in the dishwasher). A load of laundry is going. An ad for people who have suffered from malignant Mesothelioma is playing on the television. And the dog is snoring.

Me, I am just tired. It has been a really busy week around here with everyone going in different directions and on top of that one of Bric’s offices is relocating so last night we were finishing up the packing and loading of trucks. I left early compared to most…I think they said that they finally finished with the last load and left at 4:30 this morning. While I should feel guilty for leaving earlier than the majority…I am not going to at all…I made supper and delivered it to them and then packed up 2 of the rooms.

Now, let me introduce some lucky folks tonight…

Rubbermaid Drawer Organizer Winner: #41 – EMMA L HORTON


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#92 – Terry C

#70 – Jason


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